5 March 2005 - 8:01pm
Mothers and others- mapping the new realities, Part III Matriarchy Defined
Reprint from The-Goddess: Part III. of III.
I’m not making this stuff up. There’s an entire body of Feminist research and theory that I’m basing this on.
Matriarchy is a positive, egalitarian system. Matriarchy is not just "patriarchy in a skirt". It's not about women dominating and mistreating men. This is not the place to indulge your “FemDom” fantasies - they are the stuff of Science Fiction and unfortunate sexual imprints.
Matriarchy's values and goals include:
1) Nature is a Mother. The Goddess is “immanent” She is not everywhere, She is everything. The universe is a macrocosm of the Earth which is a macrocosm of us. Woman is a microcosm of Her and She is alive. We are born of Her and return to Her, but we are never apart from Her because we are part of Her.
2) Sensuality and sexuality are important values People of all genders enjoy sexual and reproductive autonomy. Children are born of their mothers, therefore the mother retains the primary decision-making power. Inheritance is established by familial relationship in practice more than in blood. The Father role is often carried out by a “Social Father”- usually the Mother’s brother - rather than the biological father. Homosexuality and Bisexuality are seen as normal variations.
3) Power belongs to the people Matriarchy functions under Tribal values. When the tribe prospers, everyone does. No one starves unless the tribe as a whole is starving. Individual wealth accrues only after basic survival needs are accomodated. The group decides as a whole how best to use its resources.
4) Consensus Rule Pure democratic rule tempered with reason and equal opportunity. Negotiation is preferred to dominance. Peace and cooperation are idealized. All members have an equal vote and are therefore equally represented.
5) Diversity Matriarchy recognizes that strength lies in diversity. Different races, cultures, positions, beliefs are respected as individual choice. Individuality and creativity is preferred to conformity. Deity encompasses feminine as well as masculine principles. All sexual behavior among adults is accepted.
6) Equality No gender, race, class, or group exercises power over any other, nor is there a preference for or superiority of any group assumed in political, practical or social functions of the culture. Women are not seen as “ruling” men, but rather the social structure follows the female line.
Yes, Matriarchy is a distant dream. American culture isn't quite as strictly Patriarchal as it once was, but if you look at our current political situation, you'll see that it still vastly favors Men, Wealth, State and Church. We are on our way back to the 18th century if we don’t stop the patriarchal backlash directed at women’s rights.
I believe that restoring woman’s place in the world is essential to our progress.
End of Part III
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Comments
You aren't saying there's ever been a historical matriarchy then?
When you say the "evil women oppressing men" matriarchy is contained only in movies are you saying the various feminist utopian fictional accounts are NOT examples of matriarchies? Do you see any feminist utopias as representing a matriarchy?
on something before you swallow your tongue. The women-oppressing men concept of matirarchy is fiction. Yes, there are fictional stories which include more accurate depictions of matriarchy, but I'm not talking about those. No, I am not saying that there has never been an historical matriarchy. There's plenty of evidence that there have been past matriarchies which were deliberately obscured by patriarchal forces.
Morgaine-ism© #8
"A Woman's Sexual and Reproductive Autonomy is Sacred and Absolute."
I am aware of those supposed matriarchies and they are very much disputed of course. As far as anyone really knows male dominance (not patriarchy in the sense of patrilineal inherentence) is one of the few constants of all societies throughout all human history. Women just too lazy to take charge I guess ;) Of course "as far as anyone knows" is not all that far.
At any rate you're not defining matriarchy on either feminist utopian fiction or possible historic societies but merely as a theoretic system defined by what you just wrote then?
Good. 'Cos frankly those feminist utopian authors are a bunch of nutcases who hate men. Screw them!
As I said, I do believe in the Ancient Matriarchies. I do not believe that male dominance is universal - simple knowledge of sociology belies that.
Hmmm - I'm a feminist utopian author and I love men... guess that makes you WRONG.
Morgaine-ism© #8
"A Woman's Sexual and Reproductive Autonomy is Sacred and Absolute."
You are surely a nutcase :)
You've written a utopia? So can I see it? Can I? Huh! Huh! Can I see it?
How does the state religion thing square with the equality and diversity thing? I'm an atheist so your society has no room for me? Or is this a state religion no one cares about --- like Anglicanism in the UK? Or is (1) just your way of saying that a matriarchy will value the environment?
Why do you feel the society needs to be matrilineal if you want gender equality? Is a matriarchy a luddite society that can't tell who the father is? Are you basically against the idea of fatherhood? How does women being in charge of child care square with equality?
I don't think it's necessarily appropriate to go into detail on (4) but surely consensus rule and democratic voting are sort of opposites aren't they?