There is no easy answer to this, I do know that men of my generation still have hopes of finding that one true love. All to often we find ourselves being used by some women and having our hearts broken. Some women have become cold and heartless, walking away from their families, their children to enjoy the single life of drugs and sex. To work at relationship problems is not an answer, its to easy to run away. To put all you have into someone, just to have them spit in your face by their actions would anger anyone. Even as I could never understand hitting someone I love, I cannot say I have not thought of knocking some sense into someones head. To many triggers are out there and the games need to end before others feel that lives are wasteful and should be taken away.