From Jill at Feministe, I found this article By Antheia at Mad Melancholic Feminista:

"How long did it take you to get over it?"

Really, I'm trying to keep this short so I can get on with my feminist theory reading (because I *heart* Angela Davis), so...I won't comment on it other than to say that it hits the nail on the fucking head.
In the words of my dad back in his hippie days...
Right on, man.*
Right on.

(Psst. Go. Read it. Now.)

*disclaimer: Used in the non-gendered sense of the word "man." I'm very conscious of the problematic use of the word "man" to encompass all humans, and I only use it to keep with the hippie-esque language that I'm going for. Because that's what they did back in the Days of MaryJane.